Love Life: Fate vs. Free Will

FATED LOVE STORIES

If you have a love life that is strongly governed by fate this means that before you were born, you likely chose a certain love story/s to experience in this incarnation. 

Your soul may have agreed to meet key love interests, or at the very least to attract certain themes or types of partners.

Based on this predetermined script, divine timing will largely decide when you will meet certain love interests along your timeline. Fated love interests are often past-life connections that you have karma with, and are perhaps even such specific connections as soulmates or twin flames. 

Heavily fated love lives are difficult to shift, especially if souls have formed contracts with each other to fulfill specific relationships, such as partners in marriage.

On that note - keep in mind that the stories you signed up for may not always feel like positive or pleasant experiences. You may not end up in a relationship with a fated connection. Or even if you do end up in a relationship, it could still present each of you with major challenges. 

At the very least, fated connections are meant to help each of you learn lessons to enable your spiritual growth. This is especially likely with soul connections, since the intensity and familiarity of such dynamics tend to trigger vulnerability and therefore any hidden wounds around genuine intimacy. 

Remember, fate and free will lie on a spectrum. 

Even in lives pre-scripted by destiny, free will can play a part in creating certain outcomes, therefore resulting in multiple alternate universes.

Commonly, a person might experience fated relationships as well as relationships that came about due to their own free will. You might date someone just because you were open to the experience, and not necessarily because they were destined to be your partner. 

The less fated your love life, the more free reign you have to shape your relationships. Your actions and intentions as you move through your life will matter more here, since you didn’t sign up for a fated love story/s before you were born. 

This means that if you’re passive, you might not pull in a relationship, but that if you make a healthy effort and send out the energy of your desire into the universe, you might end up with a corresponding love interest. 

Some people in particular might be extra luck - usually because of positive karma - and will have an easier time manifesting than others. 

If you’re having a hard time manifesting the kind of love interest you want, be patient, especially if the kind of partner you’re asking for is extremely specific. Clearing your emotional blocks will help boost your energy and therefore your ability to manifest. 

And then, if after you take these steps you still feel blocked - know that you might be someone who has a fated love life after all. People with destined scripts subject to divine timing will simply have a hard time manifesting anything that deviates too much from that storyline. 

How much of a role do you think that destiny plays in your love life?

If you have any questions, let me know! 

And if you want specific insights on your love life - such as predictions or advice from your spirit guides - you’re always welcome to book a reading with me here. We can always check whether you have any fated love interests in your timeline, as well as what you can do in the present moment to help you form more loving relationships.